Monday, May 22, 2006

C.H. Spurgeon's Mother


C.H. Spurgeon, "the price among preachers", is one of my favorites! I love reading his sermons-I am always inspired, convicted, and encouraged. I will always remember what he wrote about his mother in the first volume of his autobiography, in the chapter entitled, "Early Religious Impression." We can certainly learn from her example:

"..I cannot tell you how much I owe to the solemn words of my good mother. It was the custom on Sunday evenings, while we were yet little children, for her to stay at home with us, and then we sat round the table, and read verse by verse, and she explained the Scriptures to us. After that was done, then came the time of pleading...and the question was asked, how long would it be before we would think about our state, how long before we seek the Lord. Then came a mother's prayer, and some of the words of that prayer we shall never forget, even when our hair is grey. I remember on one occassion, her praying thus: 'Now, Lord, if my children go on in their sins, it will not be from ignorance that they perish, and my soul must bear a swift witness against them at the day of judgement if they lay not hold of Christ.' That thought of a mother's bearing swift witness against me, pierced my conscience, and stirred my heart....

Fathers and mothers are the most natural agents for God to use in the salvation of their children. I am sure that, in my early youth, no teaching ever made such an impression upon my mind as the instruction of my mother; neither can I conceive that, to any child, there can be one who will have such influence over the young heart as the mother who has so tenderly cared for her offspring. A man with a soul so dead as not to be moved by the sacred name 'mother' is creation's blot. Never could it be possible for any man to estimate what he owes to a godly mother. Certainly I have not the powers of speech with which to set forth my valuation of the choice blessing which the Lord bestowed upon me in making me the son of one who prayed for me, and prayed with me. How can I ever forget her tearful eye when she warned me to escape from the wrath to come?...How can I ever forget when she bowed her knee, and with her arms about my neck, prayed, 'Oh, that my son might live before Thee!' Nor can her frown be effaced from my memory-that solemn, loving frown, when she rebuked my budding iniquities; and her smiles have never faded from my recollections-the beamin of her countenance when she rejoiced to see some good thing in me towards the Lord God of Israel."

(More on Spurgeon's mother to come...)

4 comments:

Susan said...

How incredibly timely as I seem to grow so weary so quickly these days when things with my children are not pleasant. Just last night I was feeling like I was so dreading school being out because of the amount of bickering that goes on. Forgive me, Lord, and equip me and strengthen me to use these next few months lovingly devoted to my children and demonstrating Your love to them.

Thanks Kari!

Kari said...

Susan,

Isn't weariness a part of motherhood? It seems I'm always tired, but often weary. Yes, the bickering gets old! And, mine are younger than yours-I was hoping it would stop one day!

But, that's why it's good to encourage one another that what we are called to as mothers is truly a high calling. I hate to say anything, since you are so much more experienced than I at mothering! But, I know that God understands our weariness and it is yet another area He uses to cause us to fully depend upon Him. We can't do it the right way on our own. May we allow Him to love our children through us. Kari

Kari

Anonymous said...

Kari - I bumped into your nice blog and I know this is a very old post, but I just wanted to say how much this quote from Spurgeon's mother ministered to this mother's heart.

'Now, Lord, if my children go on in their sins, it will not be from ignorance that they perish, and my soul must bear a swift witness against them at the day of judgement if they lay not hold of Christ.'

I hope you are having a blessed Mother's Day.

Kari said...

THank you, Diane. Glad it could spur you on today! Thanks for stopping by! Maybe today is a good day to repost it! :) God bless!